Can you imagine a life without negativity?
It would honestly be a dream come true.
The Covid-19 pandemic has affected so many people in a negative way. currently, as things stand we are faced with job or company loss, health issues, financial problems and not forgetting to mention crime. We can't fix everything at once. We can however focus on one thing at a time. Some negatives are out of our control. Those that we can control we need to face head-on. Reach out for advice or assistance, remember you are never alone.
In order to start making positive changes in our life, we need to take responsibility for our reactions and responses to negative impacts put on us. By taking accountability we can focus better to resolve the matter. When we ignore or shift responsibility it will never be resolved. For example, we lost our jobs because of the pandemic. If we keep fighting the company we waste time, energy, and resources to find another job.
We need to break down the problem, see how it affects us and what we can do to make things better for us going forward. Sometimes God places us into situations that we might be uncomfortable in, but only God knows the benefits that await us once we go through difficult times. So hang in there and keep the faith. Put your trust in God.
Remember we have complete control of the situation that we are faced with. We can make it spiral out of control or we can calmly try to process the situation and execute a solution that pleases us.
Sometimes when you are caught in a toxic situation best to be calm, and stay quiet, until such time that people are more approachable to communicate more rationally.
Listen, process, then react.
Take the positives out of every negative and build on it. focus on the positive outcome. Be more mindful of the things we need to be grateful for.
Keep in mind if we focus on the negative situation that we find ourselves in, we will only become more despondent and spiral out of control, and before you know it, we way in too deeper. We need to take baby steps to move forward in a positive direction.
Aaron Doughty has a wonderful way of explaining it.
We now need to start changing our thought patterns when it comes to negative thoughts.
Have a wonderful week ahead filled with happiness, peace of mind, tranquility, and faith.
Lotsa of love and blessing.
Coach Zee
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